Fate or True Efforts...Which is True...?????

Man has invented & discovered almost everything in this planet right from electricity to cloning machine, but he hasnt got answers for one element which is playing a very signifiacnt role in this earth, FATE Or TRUE EFFORTS OF A HUMAN.!! What is the element that keeps man alive, is it his fate or his actions.? Some say that everything is decided by an element called "GOD" who has decided every single movement of a human. The above statement actually gives rise to a another debatable question - " Who is God?" & "Does that element exists?" . People doesnt have concrete answers for all these things & questions. There is another set of population who utters that , there is no element called as "fate". They tell that "Man is the creator of his own destiny". Actions of a man decides his goals & things which he needs to achieve in life. It is also believed that one's attitude & basic thinking decides his position in life. People say that elemets like hardwork, sincere efforts ,dignity , honesty , simplicity & ethical behaviour in life plays a very crucial role in one's life & which cannot be termed near or equal to the term fate. These are the basic attributes that a human has to learn to reach his destination . There is also an another way by which man creates his destiny which is by committing & correcting mistakes, learning from the past actions which he did ,unlearning sinful deeds & thoughts, etc. Above all a man can become error free if he follows " EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED". This will create an attribute in human called as forecasting which can provide solutions for the future trauma or troubles, which he may face. This can delete the quote " To error is human" from the all the minds. Who said that humans are not always perfect?? Is it impossible for humans to become inch perfect in each & every sphere of his own life..? If climbing Mt Everest, Dicovering electricity , Discovering the spherical shape of the Earth is possible, then making humans to be perfectionists is also possible.!! The solution to the debatable statement of "Efforts & Fate" is a chimera.!! According to me , a man's birthdate , his parents , physical appearence & his last day on earth is termed as "Fate". The remaining actions of his are termed as "Efforts". So Mathematically, efforts can be defined as
Efforts= Distance between both the fates ( birth & his death).So both fate & efforts are playing a crucial role in a man's life..

I'll try..!!

These two words - "I'll try" -are two of the most disempowering words we can use The only way of being powerful and in control of life is to be committed, which means saying either "yes" or "no" not "I'll try". Commitment is a source of personal power.Without commitment, self-mastery isn't possible. I'll try is the enemey of commitment.

Real power comes when you say 'yes' agaisnt all odds and do it.You go all out to keep your commitment .A person who does that is greatly admired because he has displayed a rare kind of inner power. But the greatest power comes from making a promise that you dont even know you are capable of fulfilling, You take such a promise as a challenge .When you do fullfil it , it will give you a power & courage that you have never experienced before. The word 'Yes"has million positive meanings..its an head on collision with life & its uncertanities. In this process Failure can come but these failures are termed as "sweet failures". These failures can bring a very good change in one's attitude & approach towards life. Positive approach , positive thinking & Positive thoughts can bring miracles to human if they have the urge to do the thing which they want to achieve.
The word I'll try is an adult game . It is only a polite way of refusing. Its a very safe satement which people always use at the time of crisis. The only solution to crisis situation is the word "Yes"..